Emotional style
You process your emotions by analyzing them; you want to "solve and fix" feelings, carrying them into logic instead of feeling them directly.
What they need
Order, being useful and being of service — control and the sense that "everything is fine."
Their instinct
Helping, organizing, routine and order; when tense, you flee into work, into detail and into lists.
To feel safe
Trust, stability and appreciated service; you receive and give love in the language of "I took care of it for you."
When off balance
Excessive anxiety, self-criticism, perfectionism, suppressing feeling with logic.