Emotional style
You control and mask your emotions; you say "I must be strong," you hide your sensitivity, you try to be self-sufficient.
What they need
Control, competence and respect — being emotionally reliable and solid.
Their instinct
Work, responsibility, structure and achievement; when tense, you flee into work and control, and you postpone feeling.
To feel safe
Trust, stability and respect — but in truth you're in need of deep tenderness and the message "you are enough as you are."
When off balance
Suppressing emotion, coldness, workaholism, mistaking vulnerability for weakness.
Frequently asked
Is “detriment” a bad thing?
No. The planet's natural language and the sign's language differ — the expression takes a detour, but with maturity it teaches a great deal.